Because your two year old has a better understanding of her feelings, she will be able to respond when you ask questions like “Are you happy or sad today?” or “Why are you happy?” or “Why are you sad?” When your child is able to communicate her feelings, it gives you the opportunity to respond appropriately to her wants and needs.
Your child’s emotional security and confidence develop when parents give warm, consistent, responsive care to their children. Part of showing warm and caring behavior to your two year old is being attentive and in tune with her feelings. Demonstrating this behavior shows your child how to use kind, caring, appropriate behavior when dealing with others.
Having the ability to read the emotions of others is an important social skill that two year olds are beginning to develop. As they learn how to read others’ emotions and react appropriately, children often look to their parents for directions when trying to figure out how to behave in certain situations. As your child grows older she will look less to you for understanding someone else’s emotions and decide for herself how the other person is feeling. She will begin to understand when she is making her friends happy or sad, when to give space, and when her friends need a hug. In other words, she will start becoming more emotionally intelligent over time and with more experience with family and peers.
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It is important to praise your two year old’s successes and show your child that you see how she is growing and learning. This will help build her confidence so she can have more success making friends.
